Creating Alignment From the Inside-Out So Your “Super Powers” Are Free

I’ve discovered that creating alignment from the inside out allows an individual’s true power to flourish. We all have internal barriers that might prevent us from reaching our full potential. Just yesterday, I spoke with a client who believed they couldn’t handle confrontation. They were afraid that engaging in conflict might disappoint someone involved. They confided in me about their inexperience with such situations and felt it rendered them incapable of providing value to the participants. I was taken aback that someone who seemed so successful in both their personal and professional life felt limited in this way.

This revelation led me to consider whether this inhibition was preventing them from achieving even greater success. By employing my system of asking probing questions designed to create internal alignment, the client shared that they were deeply concerned this limitation might negatively impact their family or business operations. Their willingness to be open and candid revealed a genuine desire for growth and change.

As we delved deeper into the situation, it became apparent that the root of their issue stemmed from a family member’s behavior during their upbringing. This family member exhibited the exact type of avoidance behavior the client now mirrored. Even more crucially, the client realized they disliked this family member’s response to conflict, which was to withdraw. This was a significant breakthrough. Throughout our conversation, the client released the tension accumulated over decades by holding in these insights. Each explanation of how they felt in heated situations—alone and abandoned—helped to alleviate this tension.

Awareness of the impact of non-engagement in the face of argument and adversity was a critical turning point. The client committed to becoming actively involved when there were problems they could help resolve in the future. This is the first step in aligning from the inside out: identifying and addressing the issues that have previously held you back.

By freeing yourself from past situations that may have limited you, you can now leverage your best qualities—your “super powers”—to address any challenge and improve the outcome for everyone involved. This process involves a thorough examination and cleansing of past inhibitions and obstacles, allowing your true potential to shine through.

This detailed overview of part 1 of my formula for discovering your “super powers” highlights the importance of internal alignment. By addressing and resolving past issues, you set the stage for unleashing your true capabilities. In the next part of this series, we will explore further steps to discover and harness your “super powers.” Stay tuned for part 2, which will be released in mid-June.

If you are interested in support for removing past inhibitions, discovering your “super powers,” and then unleashing them in your personal and professional life to maximize your impact and success, I am here to help. Let’s discuss how we can work together to unlock your true potential.